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Fruita CO | OK, I haven't jumped in on this, never was in the situation you're in. my Dad has been gone for over 30 years, & when I did work with him, it was good...
But, it looks like what you're saying here is you're willing to jeopardize your own mental & physical health, & possibly your marriage because you're worried about how you THINK your Dad will react if you try to deal with the situation? The choice is to either talk to him about it or put up with it until he dies, or you go crazy, or your wife leaves you, or all of the above. How about the guilt if that happens? Maybe he's secretly tired of the damned farm & wishing you would relieve him of the burden. You can't read his mind. You have to deal with it, Man. | |
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Farming with dad.
