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Ohio | Man, I feel for you! I'm so sorry any one has to go through this.
I can imagine because I had the exact story as you just wrote 26 years ago. I still think about it.
Well, it's going to be absolutely the worst thing you will ever have to go through! The worst!
Much worst than someone dying , because you can't change that and you can move on after the funeral.
Let her go, get the divorce over with quick, and then you can get on with the rest of your life. I'm sorry but she, just like my ex has already made that decision and doesn't care. Remain patient and calm and civilized and get through this. Does no good to get angry, violent or any other bad things.
And be the best father you can to your children , keep them involved in your life and they will love you for it!
A friend told me " Give it a year afterwards and you will heal and see that everything's going to be much better " and he was right on, and it doesn't seem like that now at all.
GOOD LUCK to you and I hope the best outcome for you and the children!
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