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Lots of good advice here. I went through absolute misery. My ex was bipolar who refused to take/seek adjustment for her medication and reeled between extreme depression and wildly manic episodes. She would call me screaming that I was having an affair (not true) on nights when I was harvesting or planting later into the evening hours; she would then question why I was home before she was on days when the weather was 10 degrees and snowing to beat the band, well, gee, because I fed and bedded down before and as the storm was hitting and raced for the house.
Don't let it screw up you're business. I lost a lot in the deal and will never regain that. Get a good lawyer. Nolan is a precious little boy. Take good care of him and love him as his Daddy. Mine was 2.5 when we realized it couldn't work. I don't bad mouth her mom but at this age she can see for herself that her mom is nuttier than a tree full of squirrels. It's okay to love again but you don't have to rush it. I remarried and it's been a blessing. Be open to talking with you're pastor, a counselor, close friends, anybody you need to. It will be a long road but it can get better. | |
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