Posted 4/8/2021 11:00 (#8939715 - in reply to #8939681) Subject: RE: wife wants to work 1 night a week bartending
I've always noticed a lot of guys say that "I don't have anything to worry about" until they do. That's because a lot of married people are kept from the real world for a large percentage of their lives until they're too worn out to be tempted anymore. When a lot of couples got married they have about 10 guys in their entire class and they might have liked 2 of them and the lady wittled it down to 1 and got married and whisked off to some house to be a housewife for 60 years never really getting to know any other men enough to find out if they made the right choice. Same thing for the man. Working around a very large group of people can really make a person rethink the decision they made when they married the first one. It doesn't even have to be a physical affair. Just an emotional one where he or she gets to talk to somebody more interesting or different can be a deal breaker. I hear all the time you can't keep a person locked up but in a sense a lot of people are just that. I've heard people say a lot of times you have to "date" them every day and there is a lot of truth in that.