Posted 4/7/2021 09:15 (#8937798 - in reply to #8937620) Subject: RE: wife wants to work 1 night a week bartending
The answer to this situation depends on your relationship with your wife... as well as her personality/character.
Could be really good money if she does a good job... and it could be the start of her turning towards other guys to talk with if she’s not getting her communication time from you. It’s easy for a guy to not make her daily connection/communication time a priority over work... myself included. But it’s important to the way a girl is wired.
A wife of 21 years doesn’t tell us if you have a good relationship or not. It just tells us she’s not 21 and newly married. Only your wife knows your relationship status. Us guys are too dumb to even know that. So ask her if she’s happy in her marriage and there is anything lacking... if her needs are all met. If you are meeting her needs (and even some wants) in a relationship you can have confidence in whatever she does as long as it’s not on a pole. If your placing your work constantly over her needs in a relationship then it’s only a matter of time anyways.
Technically “the balls in your court” at this moment in time... if you make the wrong things a priority then “your balls might be taken to court”. Good luck!
This post is less about the job and more about your priorities and relationships