Posted 4/8/2021 06:53 (#8939249 - in reply to #8937620) Subject: RE: wife wants to work 1 night a week bartending
I bleed green - 4/7/2021 07:48 looking for a little input- my wife of 21 years wants to work 1 night a week at a local golf course tending bar.... I'm not sure what I think about the idea. She is a school teacher so she has summers off and just wants to try this- am I way overthinking this? Just not sure if I like the idea of the bar scene which we really are not a big part of. She is telling me she just wants more of a social night out meeting new people- we have 2 kids age 16 and 13 so they can take care of themselves for a evening if I am busy at the farm. I work a full time job in town and farm 900 acres with my dad so pretty full schedule, definitely in the summer. any thoughts? thanks!
If you golf and spend some time there so they know you it might if you don't it won't. I think you are in a tough spot regardless. You are at the make or break spot for a lot of marriages. Mine broke.