Southeast Wyoming | berggrenfarms - 3/20/2015 18:10 I'm not sure what shed say, but it never came up at the counseling sessions. I did everything I could to let her know that I was committed to her and only her. But she did say that she felt like she was "forcing" me to get married, to which I replied that as long as I was with her it didn't matter to me if we were married or not.
It sounds like you were committed to using her with little, if any commitment to a true relationship with a future. She did good in finally recognizing that and moving on. It is too bad she gave of her life thinking you may change.
Marriage was obviously important to her or she would never of mentioned the feeling of "forcing" you to get married. You cap that off by saying that marriage didn't matter to you one way or the other, but obviously you did not want to be married.
Thank goodness you didn't get married. Unfortunately your experience seems to be the norm. Lucky are those who realize that a truly intimate relationship is worth waiting and taking the proper time to build. So I have heard, seen and believe. |
Since marriage and religon is a hot topic
