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Southeast WI | My head hurts reading that. If you aren't in major agreement with your wife you've just entered hell because you'll be miserable trying to please everyone, you'll be stressed all the time because nothing will go smoothly and long term everything about you and work will suffer. Next stop is end of marriage or end of dream. When spouses demand things of each other or one is always demanding it does not end well.
My wife and I met early in college. We had a direction. We listen to each other. On this short camping trip we are on we were talking with friends about spousal decision making. I said Tracey made a bunch of our major decisions in our marriage. For example, after we bought some land we knew we were going to build a house. I wasn't quite ready but she said we better go now as int rates were low, kids would be starting school in another year, etc. She was right and I knew it so we built then. It is a push like that how spouses need to work together. We do this in many ways. Unilateral decisions and demands are what leads to the common marriage failure. | |
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What would you do - german version
