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Southern Idaho | here's the thing, she knows she should get it done but can't. three kids, a few cows and full time job, we for years fought about it (married 14) then i just decided if it is goin to get cleaned, i'll do it myself. i married for love. part of the problem is she was raised by a mom that was very involved with the farm. outside just like all the men, which is fine. my mom was a stay at home mom, our house was like a museum, she wanted no part of the farm and really made dad's life miserable while he farmed full time. so i decided that i want a wife that is involved, even though she works, she takes care of the cow's and knows all that goes on too, will drive combine when needed and etc. but you know me, want my cake and eat it too. clean house and a full time working wife, and also help on the farm. well like i said it took a few years to wise up, but now when the house gets bad i just stop and get it caught up. i do love my wife, and i know she is not superwoman, but this will always be sore spot.
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any one else clean house for the wife??
