Posted 3/13/2019 18:13 (#7378429 - in reply to #7374355) Subject: RE: anybody here adopted or spouse adopted or kids
I was adopted, but was pretty young, under a year.
I have never felt the urge to find my birth parents. I really think God put me where He needed me or where I needed to be.
Now in my mid 40's. I am rethinking that slightly. I feel like I have an obligation to find the birth parents just to let them know they did a good thing and I turned out OK (well, reasonably so).
They would likely be in the mid 60's now for age. I can't imagine never knowing what happened to your child. I would think it would give them some peace. It would be complicated, because I really don't want to bring them into my life. Maybe that is selfish, I don't know. I thought I may mention it to my lawyer when I go in to do tax stuff and see what it entails and go from there...….