I went to a wedding with my newborn son a week after he was born.  I was nursing and it was easy to feed him.  Changing diapers was more inconvenient.  I was told that while I was nursing the baby was perfectly safe from germs and such as my milk was boosting his immune system.  He is now 26 years old.

Studies are finding that grandparents are a very important part of a child's healthy development as they grow.  Granted, I don't think a newborn would be affected, but the issue is when should it start on the father's side.

Parents & grandparents should not be tossing this child around.  All should be making sure quality time is spent by all with him/her.  There should be no battles nor selfishness. If both co-parent properly, the child will do well no matter whether the parents marry or not, thought the latter would be better.

Mrs. Fefernuse whose father and sister are child psychologists who see too many children due to disfunctional parenting and grandparenting