He is not a bank, other siblings. Oh I have to go to town, how awful. What kind of financing did you have to purchase the operation. Maybe he didn't have confidence in you. Your parents might be trying to survive financially themselves.  How large of a dairy herd.

He must of paid you for your time while working there.    Over these 5 to 6 years what have you done, or attempted to do to increase your assests?  I think you will need to try longer then 6 months to see if it works.  good luck on your situation.