No offense intended but Rambo, yes you can have it both ways.

For example, parents are responsible for the action of their kids when they are doing wrong but the school is responsible for the kids if they are doing good.

Or, if a woman wants to abort her child it's okay but if another woman aborts her against her will that woman can be charged with murder. *

*http://www.ncsl.org/research/health/fetal-homicide-state-laws.aspx