I left TX to go work on the large power lines that were being built across the Northeast. My brother-in-law was working for that company and had promised me a job. They lived just up the road from my wife and they both had boys the same age. She was standing on her porch when I first drove by and I gave her a big smile. From that moment she didn't stand a chance. Funny thing though, she had 2 boys and I had a 17 month old girl. All I did was ask her if she wanted to be a permanent babysitter and next thing I knew, I was standing in front of that judge.