It is an honest question, suffice it to say that we're working on it and as it really is our business, I won't explain most of it here.  There are emotional ties I have been coming to terms with since this is the house I grew up in--I know it's just a house, and I also know that the memories will always stay in my head no matter who is living in the house.  I tell that to other people but it is different when it is your own life.  We'll get there though!  Stay tuned!