801486 - 5/21/2018 23:08
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There are great women out there, but there are those who aren't happy with anything. It's all great when its new, but when some of the shine wears off, they aren't happy. When I got married, I traveled about half the year. My Ex wife quit her job and traveled with me. It was nice to have her help move field and spend time with her, but she quickly grew tired of eating out and riding in a swather all day. I got a different job with the same company, came home every night, we had our son, and life was good. After Nolan was born, I cooked nearly all the meals, did laundry, cleaned house, put our son down at night, got up with him during the night and flat out worked my tail off at home and at work. She would tell her friend about how great I was, but never ever thanked me. She would shop online constantly, ran up a big credit card bill, and to help pay for her spending, I would work for a farmer in the evening off and on. That wasn't enough, she was soon unhappy with me, with the baby, and nearly everything in our life. I think there was postpartum depression but she wouldn't get help.

All she could ever tell me was I don't like this or I don't like that. I would do things differently, changed churches, took small trips, tried to spend quality time together, took her on dates, and she stared at her phone and didn't even talk. Something tripped in her brain and it changed. I haven't seen her happy since. Our divorce was finalized in March, she has had a few boyfriends before that and I'm seeing the new wear off and watching the unhappiness start. I feel bad for her that she is never quite content, makes for a hard way to go through life.