Highland Center, in Southeast Iowa | tommyw-5088 - 5/21/2018 18:21 It’s the best money I ever spent, lol Oddly what took me 25 years to build , took her 2 to spend. X is on second husband and has basically bankrupted him , already . Lots of difference in wives , got the best now any lucky fellow could have . Very seldom have a cross word . We both had been married before and signed a prenup agreement. She has more land than I do . I’d caution anyone , who farms be sure you marry someone that understands What’s involved in that life .
That's probably pretty good advice, tommy. Especially for the second go-round. Sometimes that first one is naive enough and starry-eyed enough that it works out that she doesn't "get" what all's involved in a farming operation until she's lived thru it a few years and by then she's indoctrinated into it so she thinks it's normal. And then there are the others who hear all their townie friends talk about supper at a reasonable hour every night.......in the house and not on a pickup tailgate, and vacations, and weekend jaunts to ballgames or just to get away. It ain't easy. Ya both gotta want to make it work. |
Divorce and the farm.
