Gary, I'm sorry for the trouble you have had, but I sure respect you for doing the work on the follow up.  I know you have the right intentions.  I also hope that my "contribution" to the situation didn't cause more heartburn.  If it did, I'm very sorry.

Not that I was joking in that regard, but I need to be more sensitive when I'm posting in a joking mood because it doesn't always come across to everyone the same as I'm thinking.  I rarely find myself in any mood other than having fun and seeing the humorous side of things.  I have caused a lot of grief for myself over the years when teasing with folks that "don't get it".  It's almost an addiction that needs professional attention.