![](/profile/get-photo.asp?memberid=4171&type=profile&rnd=243) Gettysburg, PA | I agree. I could have cared less if my wife took my name. I don't need her to change her name to feel like am married to her. I don't need other people to see that she changed her name in order to prove that we were married. In fact, when we had to drive a whole 45 minutes to the closest SS office to change her name, I ask her if she really wanted to go through the hassle of doing it!!! :) |