I dont see where anybody judged "ALL" divorced people. I did see where myself and others didnt like that he ran off with another woman and THEN got the divorce. Every divorce has two sides to the story, but one side shouldnt be another person. There is a reason why they say "three's company". If you are that unhappy get out, but dont drag your spouse, kids, immediate family, and close friends through a love triangle. Whether some people wanna hear it or not, scars last forever and there is no reason to have so many. JMO