Cambridge, southwestern Nebraska | I have a friend just like you. About the same age too. Been doing his own thing long enough and not about to change. Pretty much set in his ways. To each their own. If working and not sharing your life with someone else and giving up a little of your life to please someone else is not in the cards then so be it. Best thing for both of you is to move on so she can find someone else and you can have your life to yourself.
I'm not being critical of you. It's your life Just stating what I have seen a couple of other people do in similar situations. It never works out. |