A couple comments from 41 years of marriage:

The perfect husband does not exist (except on TV)

The perfect wife does not exist (except on TV)

A good match is where you balance out each others strengths and weaknesses

Be thankful if you have a hard working, faithful, husband or wife with strong interests.

Share as much time and tasks as you can.

A farm family can have much more opportunity for sharing time and life between husband, wife and kids than many or most other occupations where the husband disappears into the city for 10 hours a day and returns tired at night.

Compromise both ways.

Good luck.

Jim at Dawn

edited to add the word "faithful"