you make is sound like it's like tractor shopping,,,  Life is a whole lot different that that. I've had a couple of significant important women in my life over my life time.

Guess what ??   they don't like the reality of farming/farm life.

Parted ways on good terms, still friends with them and we still talk. ALL will tell you what a nice guy I am they just don't like the life of being on a Farm.

Actually ,, pretty much  an  "uneducated" statement you make there...

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