I know where you are coming from.  I am a Christian and proud to declare my faith, and
that means showing respect when going to church, no matter when.  I suppose I do judge
those with not much respect for the church, and I find it lacking.  We are all sinners and 
will be judged on the last day.  I don't mind blue jeans and t-shirts, that is common now
a days and well accepted.