I think it might go back to my grandma, she had a way of living that was an example for all to follow. Her motto was if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all.

I have 1 brother and 3 sisters and we all get along. We try not to judge and we care about each other. I think our 3 boys have seen the way we get along and truly care about each other. It may have nothing to do with it but they are all strong Christians.

Don't think for a moment that we are a perfect family, that is not the case but life is to short to carry a grudge.

As I have said before we are blessed with our family.

Chuck