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| Everyone grieves differently. My sisters and I don't agree on how we should go about mom's funeral someday.
Mom preplanned an extravaganza that will be something that I want no part of. Mom hasn't prepaid for it, just preplanned.
I told my sisters I won't be there for the service or meal as the ones that show up will be there mostly for the free hot meal.
My sisters can go ahead and plan it as they like, just don't send me the bill.
Mom is in a nursing home that will leave her penniless within another year or two. Her lifelong friends have all passed on and she has alienated most of her relatives still living.
I simply prefer a public viewing with a private burial for her.
Someday my daughter will deal with my funeral however she wants to. I am cool with that. | |
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