Co worker at the time was hell bent he was setting me up with someone he kept pestering me about this one friends daughter after relentless badgering I finally went out with her.   It was a positive train wreck I vowed I’d never go on another blind date again especially one he set up less than zero spark.  Year later he tried setting me up again no no no.   More I thought about it I slowly warmed up to the idea I had known her from church since we were kids and I had set trusses with her uncle a couple months before and he was a hoot.  First date May 16th ‘03 engaged on her 30th birthday in ‘04 and married nearly a year later.   I tried like crazy to get her agree to a wedding on her birthday so I had less dates to remember but I didn’t win that battle.