Highland Center, in Southeast Iowa | Kylidge McNally - 2/4/2025 00:52 At what point does a person get over it and move on? I’ve been told a hundred times to think positive and to the future, but it’s just not that easy. Alot of cards I would of played differently in the last 4 years. The college I chose was one helluva regret. Wish I would of stayed at Saskatoon or tried a trade school…. Now I’m stuck paying on $30K of student debt when that would of been good money to go and farm with or go to school for a business related course.
Regret is 100%, always forever a waste of perfectly good time. Can you change what's happened? Then it's a waste of your resources to keep focusing on it. You have to find a way to focus that energy on something that you can change. Maybe you need some therapy to understand how to get past it. Go get it. Maybe you need a complete change of scene so you can move forward. Do it. Sitting on your chair fretting about what is behind you is roadblocking what is possible for your life. Truthfully, if I were in your shoes right now, I think I'd find a good mental health therapist to help you work out of the mire you're in. Then get off your chair and do what makes you more settled and more content. This isn't the end of the line, by a long, long shot. This is the beginning. Take action to improve your vision and make a happier life for yourself. |
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