Highland Center, in Southeast Iowa | IADAVE - 5/1/2024 10:16 A little off topic but for folks getting cremated. Please specify what is to be done with your ashes and who gets them. I have seen families argue about that. Even if they share, and get along, it brings tense moments.
+100 Whether cremation or burial, please make wants and wishes known to those who matter, and write it in a notebook where it's accessible. We lost a lovely neighbor very suddenly in AZ this past winter, and her husband and only child were in such a state of shock that they weren't able to call up what she'd stated about her wishes. It was awful for them, and pretty tough for those of us who were trying to help them thru the initial trials. |
Picking Out a Headstone
