I really don't get to but hurt over it. Every one that we were invited to that has been no kids we are not close to the couple, likely because of our differences in opinion on family so did not bother us to stay home. I have been to a few weddings were we sat on the grooms side even tough I was related to the bride. I knew the groom and his family before he met his bride and he was the only reason we went. I never really cared for the bride even though she was related because she was always causing drama.