my wife got a call this morning from a parent letting us know their child will be coming home with our child to spend the night. they even sent a note to school to let them know its ok for their child to ride the bus home with our child. now the problem is we didnt know that the kids had planned this our child didnt ask or even talk about her friend staying the night. what would you do? how would you tell you child to not make plans with your friends without asking the parents? i would of thought the other parents would of gotten a hold of us before today to ask if it was ok for their child to stay over but no not a note or a call till this morning.