I know it hurts, and I'm sorry about that. Everyone gets hurt. Every. One. Some get past it, some do not. It generally isn't easy, but it is always worth it. You may need to adjust your attitude on socialization. Hard to meet anyone......friends, lovers, business networking possibilities, whatever, if you spend all your time on the farm. Attend and become active in church, volunteer somewhere, get out amongst 'em somehow. I don't recommend bars. And I'm not blackballing anyone who goes to bars. Just saying that not everyone who does, has your best interests at heart.  Make friends first. A romantic interest will come along when it's time, but friends are forever.

Just stop and think how tough it is now, after 7 years.......but how much harder would it be 3 years and 2 kids from now when she hits the bricks. You hurt but you're very lucky long term.