Posted 10/29/2020 16:23 (#8574191 - in reply to #8574048) Subject: RE: Is it just a given............
Farming in Michigan
Keep in mind there are some other things that can be done to keep the peace, or at least try to.
Your Dad could do as he wants but then also buy a life insurance policy that pays out to the brother. It doesn't protect against spending by the SIL but can soothe the hurt from everything going to the grandkids.