We have a sleep number where we can each have our own firmness. We actually have two of them as our son uses our old one. They have a cheap version and a better one. The better one has a better pillow top and is a better mattress. I can have a sore back on a poor mattress but can find the right firmness with the sleep number. If I didn't use them I would find the matress maker for Marriott or Hampton because they have some very comfortable beds. Gunner | 
What kind of bed mattress you guys sleep on
