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NE Oregon | That’s what I’ve tried to tell him... “we only get one go at it babe.” I know hard work is a great value to have, but it is not a virtue in that more does not necessarily equal better. It just makes you a workaholic. And I could have married a surgeon (or lawyer, futures broker, whatever) making 200+k a year and got the same amount of emotional support and then at least had the money to hire out the housework and take the kids on grand adventures and vacation or whatever. Not saying money buys happiness- that’s the point- it doesn’t. And neither do cows- for me. For him, I don’t think they would either if it meant his wife and kids left. But there has to be balance in there somewhere. There just has to be. I guess that’s what I’m searching for. And for someone to hear me. I so appreciate all the support here from everyone. | |
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am I cut out for this?
