martin - 3/11/2019 08:59
One thing struck me in your post....
" but nobody will explain to me how I’m supposed to help sort pairs or feed while stuck inside a crappy feed pickup with a 1 and 3 year old (and one more on the way)"
Maybe at this season in your life, you are not able to get out and help sort pairs. However, maybe just taking your kids out to see what your husband - their dad - does is important. Maybe at 1 and 3, your kids are too young - then again, maybe not. Even just taking the kids out to see their dad for about 10-15 minutes per day would be valuable. I would make sure to discuss this with your husband up front, so this does not catch him off guard, so he does not wonder what you need, or something like that.
Maybe I am off base; however, I think this moral support would be valuable.