Southeast Wyoming | I think the key to change is wanting to change. Yes it is a habit and if we think it is a bad habit then it is worth the effort to rid ourselves of the habit.
My dad never used foul language. I spent a couple years in the service and a couple years as a diesel mechanic and foul language "seemed" necessary to fit in, or even to top everyone else. If I could out cuss the truck driver then my opinion mattered.
I believe it really is a crutch to try to gain "respect" of co workers, actually a crutch to make us feel secure because we really are insecure. I hear the most foul language from those who appear to be insecure and trying to prove they are something. And as with all crutches, it becomes a habit difficult to break.
Some note bringing religion into the discussion. I think we all have religion, just many are not Christians trying to follow strick guidelines. With the help of Christian friends, prayer and time, I don't worry about ever "slipping" with a foul outburst. It basically just isn't in me any longer. Oh I get angry and blow up occasionally but I never accidently use foul language. Sadly though, if I get angry enough I have on occasion deliberately used foul language for effect, to emphasize my displeasure with an individual . . . that old insecurity trying to run my life, but I'm not proud of that behavior. The high road is less travelled, but always the best.
Edited by Gary Lyon 11/29/2012 22:15
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