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Howdyjabo
Posted 12/18/2012 12:44 (#2759852 - in reply to #2759693)
Subject: Re: For those in a relationship. Part 5 of 40


NC		Just got thru telling my son to not go off the deep end-- that just pushes them further away.

Yeah I have a big heart ( unfortunately it gets me in trouble/hurt) unlike many men and the one she was married to for decades. I was thoughtful, considerate , caring and I guess the good in me comes out and scared the hell out of her or is it the mindset of women ( or some that is) to want / like a challenge with a man. As long as the man doesn’t let a woman know he likes her, treats her crappy she wants him but when the man does nice things and expresses feeling of care and concern for the woman its over.

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You sound just like my son- and neither one of you are getting it.
You both were(probably) too pushy and overly invested and scared them off.
A relationship is joining two people and growing together, not one overwhelming the other one- no matter how good the intentions or intensity of caring feelings.

Too much of a good thing can be bad too.
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