What is some major things i can do to make her feel at home and not feel left out or under appreciated. ANYTHING involving you and she (from mowing the yard to having kids to what's for supper) should never be discussed ... perhaps mentioned is a better word ... to anyone else in the family first.Sounds dumb ... simple ... over sensitive. Still the truth. The Bible says something about leaving your parents and holding on to each other. That is really tough when you work with your parents. And if she works of the farm it is even harder to do. You (as a couple) need space from your and her family. If you two decide to go to Super Wal-Mart at 10:00 at night you do not want your Mom commenting on seeing lights in your driveway the next day ... especially to your wife. Oh, and if you come home to put on a clean shirt in the middle of the day be sure and lock the back door ...
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