What has he got to lose by confronting someone? Everything....most notably his reputation and standing in the community. What has he got to gain? In my opinion, darn little, and darn low chances of any gain at all. All "getting something off your chest" through some hotheaded confrontation or letter is going to "gain" you is more trouble. I'll repeat what I stated before. When you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging.
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