n.c.iowa | i'm gonna agree with the dabeegmon. I've been in this situation before, and have seen it firsthand. now i'm all about helping the next generation out, but nothing makes me happier to hear the next generation, having some success, and complain about dad, grandpa, or whoever, not handing everything to them on a silver platter. you can call the shots if you are a self made man. my recommendation to you would be to visit with your dad about your concerns, and try to figure something that is fair. if you have siblings it behoves you to do something, |