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Port Byron, NY | Just looking for different perspectives or ideas on a pickle I may be in. I have been with my girlfriend steady for about 5 and a half years now. I am 25 and she is 24. We met sophmore year in college and have been happily together ever since. We both have good steady jobs and have a farm together. I know in my heart that I should seal the deal and buy her a ring. Now for the dilemma....Her parents are currently going through a pretty nasty divorce. It is stressing her out pretty badly and Im not sure what to do besides provide support. Both of her parents are putting her in a very difficult position. I will not say anything more about it out of respect for her and her family. My question is: Should I wait till its over then pop the question? I know we are a great team together and it would be awesome to make it official. On the other hand I am just not sure this is the right time. I have also heard about the couples that date for 10 years then get married and are divorced soon afterward. I certainly do not want to end up like that. So in conclusion I am just looking for advice or just another viewpoint on this. Thanks in advance. | |
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